Just because you’ve treated your girl to a good time in a bed doesn’t mean your job is done. The physical connection is very important but not enough to base your relationship on it. Certain actions after sex, like engaging her in some thoughtful pillow talk will benefit both of you. In this article, we’re to talk about  7 ways to make your girl feel special after having sex.

Sex is a very complicated act. It provides pleasure but not as much to ensure a beautiful future. It may make or break things between the couple. According to the study, nearly 46% of the more than 230 women polled have felt depressed after sex at some point during their lives. To avoid that, one must do or say something very special so that they feel special and reliable onto you and be as happy after the sex as during it, for example, Giving your girl some gift or flower will certainly make her feel happy and special.

1. Take a shower together

Although shower sex might sound a good idea, joining your partner for a quick clean up after sex gives you the time to bond with her as both relax without any pressure to have intercourse, and a shoulder massage can also be included. Lathering each other up in a warm bath not only extends couple-time, but it allows you to be nurturing and vulnerable together.

2. Have food together

Getting something to eat is also something that makes people happy and combining this with after sex activities are bound to bring partners closer. Feeding her something light like dark chocolate or fruits is one of the most intimate things you can do for your partner. There's a sense of novelty in sharing food between the sheets which can help take your intimacy to the next level.

3. Pillow talk

Paying your partner-in-crime a compliment about the sex you just had, or about her as a person, can create all kinds of fuzzy feelings for the both of you. Obviously, showing your partner some love makes her feel adored and appreciated, but making her feel good brings you joy, too. Going through the act and talking to your girl about what part you liked best is the key to understanding each other’s likes and dislikes better to enhance performance later. It also helps when people show each other some appreciation since it boosts confidence in people and also helps couples become more open to new ideas.

4. Spooning

Spooning together or just cuddling after sex is a way to maintain physical connection and create a bond that doesn’t involve any pressure to have sex and lets people feel close. Hold her in a spooning position and breathe in sync. Research suggests that couples' breath and heart rates tend to synchronize when they're close to one another, and some theorize that this can promote empathy and an intimate bond.

5. Humour

Having sex is a great thing and while it needs to be taken seriously a bit of self-deprecating humour or silly conversations after the act can be an additional icebreaker which can bring her closer as she will feel no pressure and she’ll be light-hearted.

6. Give a good massage

Massage techniques to initiate sex via relaxation and physical intimacy, but giving a massage after sex can be even more intimate. Since you're clearly not using the massage as a gateway to sex, it's an opportunity to make your girl feel loved and appreciated with no strings attached.  A massage can also bring on the release of slumber-inducing chemicals, like serotonin and opioids, to lull your girl into an even deeper state of relaxation.

7. Read a good book to her

Sharing a book and reading passages to one another helps her feel more intimate and connected. Reading the same book together also creates a common discussion point. This promotes emotional intimacy in a big way.