Kinky games to spice up your sex life

Remember the honeymoon period in a relationship, when you're head over heels for each other, and sex was nothing but amazing. You were wild, you wore matching underwear, used toys, even had sex outdoors, in fact, you had sex everywhere but the bed. Well, we can help you recreate that maddening lust with these erotic sex games to spice things up a treat!

Do as I say

Make yourself a DIY dungeon master by whipping out a feather duster and a silk tie as arm restraints. BONUS: for the entirety of your "session," you can only use Christian's and Ana's quotes from Fifty Shades of Grey. He's Ana.

Strip-Pong

Set up your dining room table like a beer-pong table, but skip the brew: Arrange six 16-ounce plastic cups in a triangle shape at either end of the table, and grab some ping-pong balls. You'll stand at one end of the table, with your guy at the other. Then take turns trying to throw a ping-poll ball into the cups at the opposite end of the table from you. When one of your scores, the other has to remove that cup and a piece of clothing. The first person to land a ball in all six cups gets to request a sexual favour of their choice.

Not So Fast

Lie naked in bed and have your guy stand in the doorway to the bedroom. Test how well he knows you by asking him questions about yourself — they can range from sexy (what's your favourite position) to personal (name your dream vacation spot). For each correct answer, he gets to move one step closer to you; if he's wrong, he takes a step back. Once he correctly answers enough questions to reach the bed, go at it. The teasing aspect will drive up his lust, and he'll also learn new things about you.

Pick a Card, Any Card

Start with a deck of cards and assign each suit a different sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs are manual stimulation, and spades mean oral. Take turns picking cards from the stack and treating each other to the sexy move you draw. The numbers on the cards represent how long you have to do each action — so if you get the nine of diamonds, he has to give you a sensual rubdown for nine seconds. If he picks the ace of clubs, you give him a one-second hand-job (boo, but hey, that's the way the cards were dealt).

Seven Minutes in Heaven

Seven Minutes in Heaven is a step up from Spin the Bottle, but now that you're not in braces in your parent's basement, why not make it even dirtier? Set the kitchen timer for seven minutes and then hop in the coat closet together for a torrid quickie. The timer creates a sense of urgency, and the small, dark space makes it feel like you're doing something forbidden — so hot.

Reality Show 

You know how you and your guy watch a show together and you really want your favourite characters to have sex? Make it happen in your bed! Doing this bit of specific role play involving the characters you can't wait to just bone already actually boning already via your boning? Perfection.

Dare or Dare

Play a game of Truth or Dare, with very little truth involved. Dares can include things like: Talk dirty to me for 20 minutes. Kiss me without using your hands to touch any other body parts (though he'll want to). ‘Sext’ me while you're at work at least once an hour.It's up to you if you want to keep dating him or let him take a turn at daring you.

Orgasm Race

Lie side-by-side naked in bed and begin pleasuring yourselves. Whoever comes first gives the other person manual or oral stimulation until they reach the finish line too. The "winner" gets to request a sexy treat next time. (Relationship bonus: Masturbating in front of each other can draw you closer — because it's normally something you do when you're alone, allowing another person to watch you makes you feel vulnerable, heightening the intimacy between you.)

The Mirror Game

Both of you strip down and sit facing each other on the bed. One of you begins to touch, kiss, and lick different areas of the other's body, and the other person has to simultaneously touch, kiss, and lick that in exactly the same way as closely as possible. This is also a great way to show your partner how you like to be touched and honestly, it's hot as hell.

XXX Marks the Spot

This is like "guess that number" but with a spot on your body. You keep one particular spot in mind and he has to kiss every part of your body until he guesses correctly. It's up to you if you want to be honest and tell him he hit the right spot, or let him keep guessing.