Women: How they test your character

In the early stages of a relationship, people test their partner to know their weaknesses and see if they are a suitable fit. Sometimes this is done in more obvious ways, but that’s not always the case. Evolutionarily in the animal kingdom, females test the males to see if they can provide and protect them against threats. Humans are not so different in this sense. Here is a list of ways women test their partners’ characters.

1.Courage test:

Historically speaking, women sought strong mates for themselves.  They looked for someone who could protect them and provide for the family. Nowadays, women are independent and strong too, but are still drawn to courage. For most women, courage is not only a display of physical strength but more importantly, emotional strength. This means that their partner is not afraid to fight for them and won’t run away when conflict arises.

2. Loyalty Test:

Studies have shown that women are more affected by emotional infidelity rather than other infidelities. For men, the opposite is true. She may ask her partner what he thinks about another girl to see if he is content with the relationship. Women are usually more intuitive than men and can tell when men are disloyal to them.

3.Patience test:

Women sometimes play hard to get to see how serious men are. She will not answer your calls or texts right away, to see how he will react to the situation. Women appreciate it when a man is patient and can keep his cool. Those who easily get angered by the slightest things are big turnoffs.

4. Test of Priority:

Women admire men who have their life together. He has a good job but is not a workaholic, and has still has room to relax and spend time with her. Men who are able to set their priorities straight make great partners because they have some structure in their lives. Choosing to make her a priority is one way he treats her well, and she will appreciate it.

5. Test of will:

Arguments are bound to come by in every relationship, but women want a partner who knows how to move past the conflict. When conflict arises, this is a man’s chance to show her how committed he is to solving problems together. This means that he is willing to compromise and knows when to admit he is wrong.

6. Test of your trust:

She might not contact him for several days or cancel plans on him last minute without an explanation. When she does this, whether deliberately or not, she wants to see if he trusts her to stay faithful and honest to him. Women want a man who cares and is attached but does not get unhealthily jealous or suspicious of her activities.

7. Test of your memory:

A man with a good memory is hard to come by. Girls like it when their guy remembers details and stories she has shared with him about her life. This is a sign that he is present and actually listening actively, and it makes her feel important.

8. Test of defence mechanism:

She will tease you to be playful, but also to see if you will get offended or defensive about it. A woman likes a man who can laugh at himself and doesn’t care too much about what other people think. Women appreciate men who are sensitive, but not hypersensitive.