Sex is seen as the deepest form to display emotions by many women in whose life sex forms an integral part. While men may orgasm quicker, these women have powerful multiple orgasms from the pleasure that they derive out of the act of lovemaking.

It is often seen that women do not crave for sex as much as men do. It is nothing personal, it is just that it is the testosterone hormone that causes physiological desires in both the males and females but due to a difference in this amount, men crave sex a lot more than women do.

But, what do women think about sex?

Sex for women begins in the mind as she fantasizes or imagines some situations or recalls some memories. While women learn to orgasm by self-stimulation, a lot many of them begin doing so after being with a partner or after they have been introduced to such concepts. The curiosity and want to help themselves do not develop as early as it does in men. It could also be because amongst women a topic like this comes up rarely than it does for men. 

For a woman knowing that she is desired is the key to her orgasm. You might call it a sort of validation but your woman needs to know how much you desire her for her to feel more pleasure. The knowledge that her partner is hungry for her inspires all kinds of imagination for her. It leads to another aspect where women associate emotions with sex. They need to feel emotionally secure to have a better sex life. Therefore, ups and downs in a relationship or tiredness, resentment or physiological problems often mess up the sexual drive of a woman.

It is a lot easier for a man to have regular orgasms but it is not so for a woman. Perhaps this is why some women equate sex with pleasure and not with the definite need to have an orgasm and it is completely fine with them. It is better to be satisfied with pleasure than to fake an orgasm and boost the male ego anyway! (No offence to the men who are doing it right! It is not a competition, you’ve only got to satisfy her.)

Men love the variety and trying out new things, women do as well, but if a woman finds the perfect position to guarantee her pleasure, she would want to make that the routine.

Also, foreplay for women is not just that which happens before sex. (And, foreplay is not just about women going down on men, embrace the idea.) Sudden compliments (even ones to appreciate our ass), a gesture like a forehead kiss to a long kiss, booty grabs and other such acts all makeup for foreplay.

Sexy in the sheets and unappreciative otherwise gives the man no brownie points. Most women know about their flaws and don’t think of themselves to look like Cleopatra, so make your comments sincere for her to appreciate it more.

It is not just men who have various sexual fantasies they want to act out, women do as well. As always, communication is the key. Don’t be shy to keep your deep dark desires within yourself, embrace the idea with your woman and it may turn out you both develop a new kink from one another!

Besides the difference, sex is the union of two bodies and two souls. One cannot ignore the emotional intimacy that is attached to it. Happiness comes from such intimacy and is the key to a passionate relationship, marriage or partnership.