Characteristics Indian Women Expect in Men

Indian women are not easily impressed with just some chocolates and roses if there is no depth in a person to be seen underneath such show.

Here are a few pointers on the things that our women look for in men as an absolute positive personality trait – 

 

1. Honesty 

A relationship does not thrive without basic honesty in it. This is universal to love, friendship or any other relationship that exists. An Indian woman may give you chances to make up for your blunders but when it comes to being found out about being dishonest, you are on your own from that point.

 

 

2. Supportive 

It used to be the norm for women to be housewives and look after the home, but times have changed progressively now. A woman who is educated by her parents rightfully will look for working after marriage. She shall be career orientated and have goals to fulfill in her own life. The woman would look for a man to be supportive of her life choices and stand up for her in his home after marriage, against possible relatives who might object.

 

 

 

3. Accommodating 

Why should it be so that when a woman and man are both working, it is expected that the woman must do her job and all the household chores as well? Irrespective of who is earning more, the other must also give in to help for things around the house and that includes cooking! It must be obvious to the man that work shall be distributed and whoever comes home early will be the one preparing the dinner. Conversation would easily reveal the type of mentality the man has.

 

 

 

4. Communication Skills 

Tell her about your day, your life, your problems, and about what is going on in your mind. Staying silent about things helps neither you, nor the girl. Once you share, you create a line of communication that is strong and which forms the base of a relationship. In fact, you will realize how much of good advice your partner may be able to provide you with in her best intentions. 

 

 

 

5. Respect 

Of wishes, of deeds, of things spoken and left unspoken, of wanting to have some privacy, in that time of the month respect and not thinking of having some right over the woman is a necessity. Do NOT be abusive. Though that is something difficult to understand in the dating phase, nevertheless if it is hinted or is seen in later stages, she shall definitely put you in prison for domestic violence.

 

 

The patriarchal notions prevalent in society have made people forget what should be the moral normal and accept traditional absurd personality traits as correct.

Indian women do not appreciate that, they may put up with a lot of maltreatment but it is not what they want.

The gentleman who sweeps her off her feet is respectful and understanding, love would come from the charm of his actions rather than the false show of roses beneath which are hidden the thorns.